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The first few hours after the birth are a very special time for the mother, baby and father.  This can be a time to establish bonding with the baby and try to persuade him to get on the breast and relax and recover from delivery.  It can be really nice to have some quiet time without being disturbed by doctors, midwives and visitors.  You need some time to recover from rigours of childbirth.  It is important to note that if your baby has to stay in the neo natal unit then although you will not be together for the first few minutes, hours or sometimes even days, but do not worry, long term bonding will not be affected.


Some women want to sleep and some get a surge of adrenaline and find the whole experience so exhilarating that they are unable to sleep.  This is a time for careful observation of the baby’s condition and mother’s condition.   Your midwife will be looking out for excessive bleeding and she will make some routine observations of pulse, blood pressure and temperature to look for early signs of complications.   In addition it is important that your bladder is kept empty, especially if you have had an epidural or a prolonged and difficult labour.

Transfer to Postnatal Ward

not everybody loves the postnatal ward

When mother and baby are stable they are transferred to post natal ward.  On the NHS you will most likely be sharing with 3 or 5 other mothers and babies and their families.  When you are fit for discharge there will be quite a lot of paper work and hopefully some safe and sensible drugs to take home with you- such as some simple painkillers and anti-inflammatory medicine, maybe iron tablets and antibiotics depending on mode of delivery and if there have been any complications.

When Can We go Home?

The length of stay in hospital will depend on individual circumstances, the mode of delivery and the health of mother and baby.  For more information on length of stay and what happens in hospital please do sign up for our Postnatal Classes.   Sometimes the maternity wards can be extremely busy and a little bit chaotic and most women are pleased to get out as soon as possible.  They are however a secure environment where mothers and babies can sleep and rest and concentrate on recovering from childbirth and getting the baby on the breast if you are choosing to breastfeed.

What is The Postnatal Period Like?

For some women, especially first time mothers, the post-natal period can be a very difficult time.  You may have sore bottom, vagina or tummy, have missed out on 3 nights sleep, have a baby that doesn’t sleep and will not latch on to the breast, giant and uncomfortable breasts that feel like they are about to explode and a partner who has gone drinking with his mates!  You may or may not have the benefit of an extended family or someone to help at home.  Many women find the post-natal period more difficult than the actual delivery or ante-natal period.  There is no substitute for good support and lots of sleep and a relaxed and quiet environment with no excessive demands on the mother.  This is the time to call on friends or relatives to help you out if you are desperate for some sleep (which is likely!) or just want to snatch a little time to wash your hair or do some cooking.

Your newborn will be examined carefully before you leave the hospital.

For more information on what to expect in the Postnatal period please do sign up for our  Online Postnatal Classes.

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